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by Jane Anderson
I decided I wanted to stay alone at night, so I told people that was what I wanted, and asked them to help me make it happen. I talked to the company I get support services from; and we made plans so I know how to keep myself safe. People were worried about me, but I told them I would be OK and would like to try it. Where I was living staff were with me 24 hours a day, my neighbors were not nearby, and it was a safety issue for me to be alone at night, so I moved where my neighbors would be closer, I would be safer and happier, and I could have my privacy at night.
I have emergency cords I can reach, that make my front door open up; a light flash and an alarm go off. My neighbors know I would need help in an emergency. I keep two phones nearby me when I am alone and know who to call for help.
Staff helped me get ready to stay alone by being there for a couple of nights, but letting me do things with out their help.
Then I spent my first night by myself, it felt awesome, it was a little bit scary for the people who support me, but I had been alone at night before and had confidence in myself to do it. I was a little nervous the first couple of times, after that it was fine. I felt so high and wonderful having my independence and proving to myself and others that I could do it! I love my privacy and independence.
I hope my story can give other people with disabilities who use wheelchairs the confidence to stay alone if they want to.